Saturday, November 14, 2009

I hate my Mum. What should I do?

I mean. Not to be a show-off or whatever, but we live in a quite huge, expensive house and everyone that lives here is rich. I get LV shoes and stuff like that (not all the time, though). Anyways, she's cool sometimes but most of the time she makes me hate her so much. It's not for fun. I really do hate her.


Like, for instance, she asks me to call my agent club thingy and tell them what to do and when I make a mistake, she'll scream the hell out of her in front of people and her friends and I get embarrassed. If I be really rude like saying stuff to her (not REALLY badly. just. quite), then she'll say I broke her heart and all just like everyone else (I have 6 siblings. She says the other 4 already broke her heart). They're all in their 20s, I'm 14 and my younger bro is 10. It's annoying cus if I get mad at my other siblings, she'll say they're too old and I have to respect them and when I get mad at my bro, she says he's too young. I DONT GET IT.


She also beats me up sometimes.


WHY?

I hate my Mum. What should I do?
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Reply:hi, your mom loves you.


moms hurt their children sometimes, but its just to raise them to be more responsible and serious.


you dont hate your mother, you're just angry.


believe me, when you'll be a grown up, you'll know that what your mom is doing is just for your best.


you seem to be very polite and good.just be a little more patiant.


good luck my friend
Reply:I don't know why. It might be hard for you, but try and be as kind and respectful as you can even when it seems like she is being unfair because that is your role as a kid, and soon you will grow up to get your own place and it will all be behind you. Good luck.
Reply:maybe you should talk to your mom personally...and tell her that you dont like the way that she treated you in a nice manner also.


maybe she had some problems also with your siblings...you should try to understand her because i believe that she's doing it for your own good..
Reply:you should hate ur mom maybe on day shell die and u will regret it i know prents get on ur last nerves but they just doing it becasue they love u cut her a break tell hert she in breest you and to stop yelling a you because it hurt ur felling tell her dad maybe she would stop and u will stop hating her
Reply:she must be the one who go to kitty parties and all that stuff. well if u r from india u have to give respect to ur mummy. just give her some time and see if she really cares and loves u if not do what ur heart says . but dont run away from ur family because only ur family members will help u in ur bad times remember this.
Reply:Ok u kids r retarded these days.Obviously ur mom loves u and wants to raise u right-Omfg she makes u do the laundry and clean the street w.t her-shes trying to teach u work and responsibility-she might yell at u b/c u made a mistake-thats common, how else r u gona learn-or when she beats u up-u did something wrong im guessing.And with the whole sibling thing she wants you to have respect for them because in the end ur gona always have ur siblings to turn to and u may get mad at them but in the end they will be there for u and u shuld be there for them. Your 14, where are you gona go? just stay at home bc its the safest place for a kid (at least in ur case-cuz ur mom cares and loves u)and dnt even say u hate ur mom bc tht is so stupid-go tell her u love her and tht shes a great mom.
Reply:if she beats you go to the police
Reply:try to talk to her politely and make her understand that she is hurting you.you can't hate your mom.i once had the same problem with mine i talked to her and asked her how will she feel if these thing were happening to her.when she saw that i was not happy with the way she treated me she became sorry for herself and apologize,now she is my biggest friend of them all


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